Online Dating Mistakes and Flaws

While you search the online world for that special lady…the one of your dreams…your soul-mate…the better half of yourself, you can do lots of things right. Unfortunately, you can, also, do a lot of things wrong….things that will guarantee failure and a broken heart. Out in the “real” world, being aggressive, demanding perfection and even little white lies are all ingredients for success. However, those same qualities are killers when you are dating online and off line, too, for that matter.

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There is a huge difference between being aggressive or confident and being too aggressive, over-confident, or simply plain sleazy or slimy from a woman’s point of view. If you push way too hard for a face-to-face, you will come across as too aggressive…maybe even, scary. Try to understand that you are not trying to close a business deal and keep the relationship progressing at a slow but steady pace. Patience is the vital thing.

Nobody is perfect. We are all flawed in some way or another…and that includes you, as well. If you anticipate the woman to be absolutely perfect and demand that, you'll always be disappointed. Demanding perfectionism in your work is something. Demanding perfectionism from your friend, co-worker or a lady you are searching for isn't just fine. It won’t happen. Expect flaws and simply deal with them. Decide the ones you can live with and those you can’t.

Little white lies and false fronts won’t work. Be honest right from the start of a relationship. Write your profile. Make it interesting but don’t make false statements. The truth may come out eventually anyway. If you say you are a lawyer who makes a million dollars a year and you're simply really a mason that makes $55,000, you have set yourself up for failure.

Remember…don’t be too intense, expect to ever find perfection or put on a false front.


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